Category: How To Guide

Breaking up is really very easy once you get the right mindset.

1. Always put yourself first.
2. Don’t care what the other person thinks about you or feels about you.
3. Don’t catch feelings after you have broken up.
4. When it is time to break up, break up.
5. When you detect some red flags and they argue with you, break up.
6. If your soon-to-be-ex is acting mean, not kind and not friendly, just say I think we should break up.
7. If they act emotional at first, know that they will get over it.
8. Be sure to look at for their feelings and try not to let it hurt them too much, in no way be angry at them or blame them for anything.
9. Love yourself.
10. Love the empty spaces in time that you will have, when you no longer receive phone calls, texts, inboxes, comments from your soon-to-be-ex
11. Get out there in the world and find someone new.

Breaking up is just a matter of believing in what you are feeling. Forget what you believed when you first met the person, that you would be together forever. Once you have realized the relationship is less than perfect, that is when you should do it.

Do not make your feelings drag behind you, unattended. Pause and talk to the person about what is bothering you that they have made you feel.

When you do this, do not let them interrupt or confuse you. Write down whatever it is that bothers you that they have made you feel.

Find a way to express it.

You deserve better. You deserve to be treated better than you are by the people who say they love you.

Be wary of any lover who wants to be your lover. Some lovers can be dangerous. Such lovers could hurt your feelings after you break up. If you have to persist through a lover’s resistance to your charms, that can be an indicator that this is a better lover than one who just gives it up to you no questions asked, no refusals.

If they get mad that you are bothering them, by all means stop. But if there is a slight note of desire mingled with the rejection, come back later.

If the lover stops answering questions and does not express things well verbally or in written language, then by all means move on.

If the lover does not like the same music as you, then by all means move on.

If the lover detests things about you that you are proud of, then move on.

I have about 30 clothing items in my possession that I longer wear and have decided to get rid of. Some of these items were expensive to buy.

Thinning my clothing collection leads me to conclude that buying clothing is a waste. Commemorative though T-shirts can be, you can remember without buying a T-shirt.

Sweaters, shorts, coats are things to get rid of after a while. Wearing the same coat or pair of shorts for decades can be a poor choice.

Here are five ways to get rid of clothing that no longer fits you.

1. Give to Goodwill. This is what most people do. Someone said Goodwill is unethical, because it resells in Africa, destabilizing their economy. I no longer donate there. Clothing dumped in deserts of South America is sad.

2. Find a church that has a clothing service for homeless. It could be fun for a less fortunate person to be seen wearing a stylish outfit.

3. Offer friends your old clothes. Post to Instagram clothing for sale.

4. Post the clothing to your Etsy account. Value your clothes. Price your clothing generously.

5. Throw them in the garbage. If they were a giveaway, throw them away.

Other options

You can also lose weight. You can wear the old clothes. You will have a rosebud.

Conclusion

Buy Givenchy and Yves St. Laurent. If you can get a Russian designer brand, get one. Dress to impress and you will. Dress like a musician, and receive less. Wear color. Wear all black. Wear khaki. Wear hot climate style. Wear suits. Wear clothes women find attractive. Wear Bolivianos Identitades costumes? J/k

In the 21st century, books are obsolete. Some might say that books are home-bettering essentials. Let’s face it. Reading a book requires more work than required.

To read a book, gravity is involved. Keeping the book open means sitting up. Or, it means lying down and holding the book up, so that the pages do not fall closed. Plus, one needs lighting. If it is too dark, reading in the dim light hurts eyes.

All those difficulties are out of the equation, when you read ebooks, which have ushered in an era of binge reading. Reading a tome via eBook is as easy to do as spending endless hours reading posts on Facebook or deathscrolling memes on Instagram. Ebooks have a light built into the screen, so you can read in the dark. No problem.

Ebooks are free. Just get a VPN, go on libgen.rs, and type in what you want. You are bound to find the book is available for free download.

Besides, audiobooks give reading new depth. Enjoy the warmth of someone’s voice, a skilled elocutionist. Soundscapes transport readers into the text setting. Best of all, listening is passive, and does not require the level of preoccupation that reading does.

I really do not understand the fetishism of buying first editions and vintage covers. That is such a waste of money. For the way books lose approximately ninety-nine percent of their value after purchase, it does not make sense to buy hard copies.

The library often has available whatever book you want. Some might say, I need more time to read books. The library will not give me enough time to finish. I say, the late fees there do not matter much. It is one of the few institutions that charge very little. The library and the post office serve the people at affordable prices.

Online libraries make the process of getting information easy as eating good food. No more does one have to go somewhere. From the privacy of home, one can log on and find any book. It only takes a couple clicks. No need to waste time, gasoline, physical effort, a librarian’s help, or money, which gets spent at bookstores.


To book luddites, enjoy the fruits of technology, as all the ideas that books sought to elevate society with were not for naught.